understanding the same loss / Ginger Cox (none) My family and I understand the same loss that you do. We lost our loved one on March 2,2004 and his first son was born on Nov.3 2004. We have had the same problem, but in Ohio if living parent asks for money in help or in black mail(they call it) then the grandparents have the right to see that child.. that is what has happend in our case... Our Family will be praying for yours tonight and every night, for the wonderful special visit you dearly deserve to have with that precious little Trent...
Has to his mother, someday her day will come and she will have to answer to a much higher and greater power than here on earth.
Jamison Clifford's family God Bless you and your family...
Thinking of you Judi / Linda Cope (none) Judi, I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I had a friend that had the same thing happen to her. Only it was her adopted daughter that wouldn't let her see her own granddaughter. I could see the pain she went through. I will pray that Lisa has a change of heart, and lets your family see Trent.
Linda, Stacy's Mom
God bless you all / Noreen (Visitor)
I am so sorry to read your story. I, too, pray that your daughter-in-law will see the light and realize that no matter what happened, life is indeed too short, and your love for Trent is so strong, that it is a sin to keep you apart. Whatever happened, I pray that she forgives and moves on by allowing you into Trent's life, for his sake. Forgiveness will heal her pain as well, even if she doesn't realize it. If he hasn't already, he will someday "google" his name and see this wonderful tribute to himself. Whatever pain might have happened after your son's tragic death, it isn't fair for Trent to miss out on the love of his grandparents and his aunts, uncles and cousins. He certainly wasn't involved in whatever happened and his dear father wasn't involved. The sites you have put together are wonderful and you are a very loving, very human family. I pray for your miracle wish to come true.
My heart goes out / Helen Vickers (Mother of Shadrick an angel ) Judie I did not realize, I guess that I knew and just did not remember that you do not get to see your grandson's. I want you to know that I will pray for you and your family for this as well as your healing the loss of Craig. I am blessed, I can see my son children as often as I want and that is a blessing. Please know that I did sign your petition and if there is anything else that I can do just let me know. Love you
Understanding/ Pat Holden Judi, Life is so short, Why don't others see that. I have 4 brothers in my family and there is distance, not by miles. They are all married and 2 of them dont see my mom or have anything to do with her. They each have 4 children and none of them know their grandma. I think its horrible. She sends them xmas cards and birthday cards, they usually get sent back. we dont know the reason for this, but the grandkids are all grown up now with kids of their own. I wonder about my brothers, like what gave them the right to make these choices for their kids. Its so complicated. In your case, with losing your son is one thing, but then taking his child out of your life also, is just plain cruel, no matter what the situation. In your pictures anyone can see the love you have for both of them. How much can one person bare to go through? That child is a part of you and you are right , he has your blood running though his veins. Im sorry if I am rambling, but this just angers me. My mom has been through so much pain, its been 25 years for her, to live through all the hloidays not seeing her Grandkids, or wondering what they look like, living within 25 miles of her home. Its a sad and cruel world that we live in. If you ever want to talk, just call 5708792019 cell 6072229184
grannies/ Angela Mason (passer by )
I am so sorry for the lost of both of your boys. I cannot say that I know how you feel because i've never been where you are. But i can say that i know how i would feel if my daughter were to try to ever take my granddaughter from me. the bond between a grannie and a grandchild is so indescribable. i felt as if i had never loved until God blessed me with that ray of sunshine. (even though i had 2 wonderful daughters) i am praying that whatever the problems are/is that they will soon be resolved. God can do anything. He can fix it. You must keep the faith and believe He can. Anyone can see the love in the pictures. What a blessed little boy.
God bless each of you,
Angie
What seperation can do to a child / Donna Robert Mom To Angie-Robert (Someone who cares ) March 11 2007,
Dear Judy and Mike
I feel so sad for you both and your family, but mostly I feel sad for Trent. I don't know his Mom and I don't know why she doesn't let you see your Grandson, but she should realize what damage she is doing to her son.
A lot of people may say, she should do what Craig would want. Well reality point is Craig is dead and it doesn't matter what he would want or think. The important issue is TRENT. (This is not being sad in a mean or harsh way or any way to hurt you. Words written don't always come out as they would spoken. I am just trying to make the point that TRENT is the real issue here.)
He is a child who has no siblings to share his pain or questions too, who has lost a loving Daddy, and now his Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, and Cousins have been taken from him also. The damage this does to a child. He must have real issues that people don't love him or want to be with him.
I can't believe a Judge or Child Protection wouldn't want to help with this situation. Any adult with a little bit of brain would know the damage seperation does to a child.
I wonder if Trent thinks everyone he loves has died and left him. He must be so scared everyday that the other people in his life is going to leave him too, or die.
Why don't you contact Child Protection Services and ask them what they can do to help you. Explain your concern now that he is getting older. You surely don't want this child to grow up to be a unbalance adult, because of issues he has locked up inside his little mind.
I honestly feel one day Trent will contact you. Children are so smart today and have many sources to help them contact people. They don't even need their parents permission. I believe love is planted in the heart and it stays there forever. Somebody else can not make someone love you, or forget you, or hate you. It is a special connection between the two people.
One day he will have questions for his Mother and chances are he will hate her for hurting his Daddy's family. They always say what goes around comes around. God says "do onto others, as you would want others to do unto you"
One day Lisa will have to face Jesus and God and she will have to answer to the highest.
I wish and hope that Lisa can pray to God to forgive her, and to give her the strength to let her son have the missing love back in his life, that he is definetly missing.
This is a beautiful site that you made for your Grandson. Pour all your love into it, so one day when you do get to see him again, he will have the cherised memories of how you missed him so much and he will see that you never forgot about him.
Always in my prayers Donna
To Trent, Sweetie, I don't know your Dad's family but I have been in touch with them since the death of your Daddy, by means of his site and yours. Always know that your Meme and Pepe and all your Aunts, Uncles, and cousins love you and miss you so much.
If you are lucky enough to get to read this precious site, you will know what I am talking about. Look at the pictures, study the words, and you will know what love is.
Your Daddy nor his family left you purposely. Your Daddy died unexplectedly and your Mommy didn't let you continue to see your Dad's side of the family for unknown reasons.
If you get to be reunited with your family down here on earth, let the pass be the pass and cherish each moment you will have with them. If you don't meet them on earth, remember that one day when you are all in Heaven you will all be reunited with your Loved Ones and the day of Glory will begin.
From a person who worries about your mental well being! Donna
To Judie / Funda Angel Sibel's Mummy (none) Judie, thank you very much for the beautiful messages you leave on Sibel's site.
I feel so very sad for you with the loss of both your lovely Son & void where your Grandson would be.
I don't know Trent's Mother or what may have happened, but I know 2 things. I know what its like to have lost a child and the lifetime of pain that this causes. I know that no matter what happens between adults, children are innocent always.
Trent should be a vital part of his Dad's family even more, as his Father may no longer be physically a part of his life but his family will be able to love Trent for Craig, to share with Trent memories of his wonderful Father. I look at the photos here of a beautiful, smiling happy family and Trent was in the midst of that love.
I believe in God, I believe that one day we shall all answer to Him for our wrongs....what will Trent's Mother answer perhaps when she is questioned for taking a bereaved family's link to their Son away? I think it is appalling, and puts even more sorrow on a heart broken family.
One day her Son will become an adult, and he will make his own mind up, and I sincerely hope that he realises how very much adored he was (and still is!).
I hope that God and Craig give you strength to carry on, you truly are a remarkable Woman & I am sure Craig is incredibly proud of you. God bless xxx
for you / Nancy Davis (friend of Meme's ) Judie,
My heart aches for you and Mike well the others too. It is such a shame that this is happening to Trent! He is missing out on his loving Grandparents, Aunt, Uncles and cousins. I do not know the reasoning behind Lisa's decision but I guarentee it is one that she will regret 10 fold when Trent finds you with your loving arms open ready to give him the hugs he has been denied.
I hope Trent gets the chance to have his loving grand parents in his life. I'm a single grand mother who is raising my grand son. He is six and I have had him all but 2 months of his life. I also cut Tristan's cord so I truly under stand that instant bond. I don't know the mother so I can't judge her but what kind of mother would deny a child of there grand parents. That in it's self is tragic. Don't ever give up hope and I sure hope you are doing every thing in your power to be able to have him in your life. Your son would want nothing less I'm sure. If I can help in your fight please let me know. I am also sending the patision to every one I know. God bless your love. Kathie Raley raleyk69@yahoo.com
Just Thinking About You, Trent!! Thought You Might Like This Picture!! xoxo / Melisa Cooper (~Amanda's Mom~ )
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH / GERRY SULLIVAN (MOM TO ANGEL JEREMY ) Judy, I pray every night that the day will come that you get to see Trent. I wish his Mom would just think what would Craig wabt and I'm sure Craig wants Trent in your life. No matter what I do in life I always think what would Jeremy want and as we talked I'm dealing with feelings over Jeremys girlfriend but when she comes to the house and my children say I don't like her I always say I have issues with her also but Jeremy wouldn't want us to hate her so as long as she knocks on the door she is welcome here and sometimes that is hard to deal with. You need your grandson in your life. You are in my thoughts and prayers always.
Love Gerry
thinking of you / Michelle Turnbull Angel Arron's Mummy Dear Judi
I am so sorry to read both Craigs site and his son Trents site. You are a very special person who shares her heart with many people across the world.
My heart and thoughts are with you xx
Happy 4th of July, Trent Blaszko Smart!! xoxoxoxo / Melisa Cooper (Friend Of MeMe And PePe )
Dear Trent,
You are probably quite a "little man" by now.
I want you to know, that I've never actually met
your MeMe and PePe, but I feel I've known
them all my life....
It is my Utmost Prayer, at this very moment,
that you be reunited with your Grandparent's.
I don't know if you know Jesus or not, but
I can definately Testify to answered
Prayer and it's Awesome Power!!
And I Pray, that if it is "God's Will", that you don't
get to see them soon, you will at least know
through this Website, how much you are truly
loved by God, Your Daddy, Your MeMe, PePe,
the rest of your Family and All of Us, Trent!!
May you also one day know, what a Blessing
your MeMe has been, and still is, to
sooooooo many people!!
She is a "Special Woman"!!
You may not know it yet, but you are a very
"Special Young Man"!!
All My Love And Prayers To You,
I Pray this is in Jesus' Most Precious Name!!
~Amanda's Mommy~
Grandma to Angel Landyn Crase / Lorraine (passerby) My heart hurts for the lost of your son and the missing of seeing your grandson. I am a grandma of 5, We lost our grandbaby 4-7-06. I dont know the whole story of why this has come to this for you, but I HOPE and PRAY that someday soon you will be reunited with your grandson. Keep the faith. Your son is watching over all of you and someday he will guide your grandson to your loving arms. Keep him in your heart.
Thinking About You, Trent, As Always!! =^..^= / Melisa Cooper (MeMe and PePe's Friend )
Trent....../ Diane-meme's Friend
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TRENT / Nancy Davis
Your Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles and cousins miss you so much. I hope this day is a wonderful day for you. I hope you will know one day Grandma and Grandpa miss and love with all their hearts.
Nancy Davis
Happy Birthday / Shoya Moore (Friend of Meme's )
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY LITTLE MAN! WOW 8 years old today! Dear Trent, What a very special young man you are. Do you know how many people in this big wide world love you? Well, I will give you a little hint... almost as many as the stars in the sky! Way too many to count on your fingers and toes! But of all of the people, there are two VERY special people who love you so very much, and havn't had a chance to tell you so lately. They say a speciial prayer for you EVERY day and night and ask Jesus to keep you safe from harm and to bless you with good health. They think about you everyday and wonder how you are and what you are doing today. They have never stopped loving you from the moment you were born!!! And they are ever so proud of you too! Those two special people are your Meme & Pepe. They love & miss you very, very much Trent & will always be waiting to welcome you home one day. Until that days comes, we will help Meme and Pepe to be strong and keep them in our prayers, 'cause they are real special to us too! Just like you!!! Happy birthday sweetheart, and may ALL your birthday wishes come true! GOD Bless you today and each new day to come. Thinking about you and sending big bithday hugsyour way {}s{}s{}s From, Shoya
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Stacy's Mom
I hope Trent gets the chance to have his loving grand parents in his life. I'm a single grand mother who is raising my grand son. He is six and I have had him all but 2 months of his life. I also cut Tristan's cord so I truly under stand that instant bond. I don't know the mother so I can't judge her but what kind of mother would deny a child of there grand parents. That in it's self is tragic. Don't ever give up hope and I sure hope you are doing every thing in your power to be able to have him in your life. Your son would want nothing less I'm sure. If I can help in your fight please let me know. I am also sending the patision to every one I know. God bless your love.
~Amanda's Mommy~ 
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